An UnFair Wisconsin
So yesterday, the gay marriage ban in Wisconsin passed. Except that it’s not just a gay marriage ban. It also bans civil unions or extending any benefit that flows from marriage to an unmarried couple. Gay or straight.
This is a problem for me, because I had decided that I wasn’t going to get married. Under Wisconsin’s marital property law, any debts that you or your spouse had prior to the marriage (or any assets) become community property that is divisible 50/50 at divorce. I don’t think I should have to be responsible for choices that someone made prior to me even meeting them, and I don’t think they should have to be responsible for my choices. Nor should I benefit off of choices that I wasn’t involved in, and I don’t think the other person should necessarily benefit off my choices. So, I decided that cohabitating was for me, because many of the protections of marriage are, oops, WERE available anyway.
Meanwhile, the same people that voted for what I like to call the Discrimination Amendment voted for reinstating the death penalty in Wisconsin. So what should Wisconsin’s youth learn from this? Apparently, it’s okay to take another human life if you think they are a bad human being, but it’s not okay to tolerate people who have a different view of marriage than you do. Nice lesson, folks.


